Rejection: Feeling denied, refused or rebuffed; discarded as useless or unimportant; cast out; unwanted; forsaken.
Rejection tuh gede jg ya efeknya sampe bs leading to u worthy, deppresion, sucide. Sbenernya bukan ttg rejection itu cm info aja kalo kita ga masuk kriteria sesuatu/ preference org, just it. Yg jd masalah, mungkin cara org menginfokannya, dgn diemin, cuekin, ghosting, avoid, ngilang, nge gantungin, ga kasih closure, mixed signal, atau bahkan byk yg gak enak nge reject jd ttp pura2 baik/boong yg efeknya lbh boomerang.
Longing: To have a strong desire or craving; a yearning or pining; aching for; to miss someone or something; to want something you do not have (e.g. She longed for a different life).
Kadang longing sesederhana being heard, hugged, seen, loved. Dan ini bs stay sampe puluhan tahun sampe terpenuhi. Efeknya bs kmn2. Kadang ada org over achieve (akademik, kerjaan, karir, materi) dr emosi longing yg kependem. Longing di hargai misal. Krn wkt kecilnya gak pernah di apresiasi dan sering dikucilkan di lecehkan. Ada jg yg pny addiction (sex, games, shopping, porn, learning, dll) dr emosi ini.
Overjoy: Intense delight or elation which is too overpowering for the body; joy that it is a shock to the system.This one emotion will appear for any and all positive emotions that have become trapped.
Kadang ada kegembiraan2 yg tak bs, tak mampu, tak boleh di expresikan. Layaknya anak kecil menang lomba, saat mau cerita langsung di shut off care giver nya. Sampe jd gak ngerti gmn sih expresiin kegembiraan, dan bs dipake apa aja sih emosi joy berlebihan ini, ngalirinnya gmn. Berakhir stuck di badan dan munculin masalah2 lain. Seperti tanpa sadar body nya jd seneng sama penderitaan untuk mereda dan nutupin overjoy yg trapped di tubuhnya.
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